DECIDING WHAT TO DO

IT IS UP TO YOU

An unplanned pregnancy will change your life forever, no matter what you choose to do. How it changes your life is up to you. Pregnant women who choose adoption do so for many different reasons. Primarily, parents who make the choice of adoption want to provide their child with the best possible life.

Many women do not feel "ready" to parent. If they do not believe in abortion, or they have waited too long to have one, they must make a difficult decision. Adoption offers them an option to choose parents who are "ready."  If you decide that adoption is the right option for you and your child, you can begin the process during your pregnancy, which may provide a sense of security at the time the child is born.

Adoption is not an easy decision to make.  You may experience many mixed and confusing emotions.  We understand that this is not always an easy decision and that your feelings will not just go away after your child is born.  Sharing your feelings with others will help.  An experienced Morning Star Adopting Center counselor will provide support and help you to cope with these feelings.  We are available to personally meet with you - either at your home, at a neutral location, or in our office - regularly and at your convenience.  Our goal is to assist you during this stressful time of your life.

The Exploring Your Options chart is designed to help you fully consider each of the options available to you.  If you would like to discuss your options, you may contact Morning Star Adoption Center's pregnancy counselor, Jan Weaver.  It is our goal to assist you with making a sound plan for you and your child, regardless of your ultimate decision.

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